x-Wife Kicked My Son & I Back At Square 1

  Cardin Nguyen        September 22, 2009

It’s been sometimes now that I haven’t update what’s going on. When I first met Ngoc-Tran Nguyen I lived at 529 32nd St Apt 27. Now after kicking after 5 years getting marry and lived with Ms. Tran she finally kicked my son and I back to square 1. Back then I made a lot of money. After she found her new boyfriend she think that my son and I won’t be able to make the same amount of money anymore. So she kicked us out and I had to go back to the same building that I lived when I met my x-wife. I’m currently living at 529 32nd St Apt 43. I must be very lucky with number 7 since 27 ryhmes with 4+3 number 7. My x-wife is such a good liar turning everyone that we known against me. Beauty sure does make a different. But there is two type of beauty. Appearance beauty and inner beauty.

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A New Life with a Future

  Cardin Nguyen        September 18, 2009

Sorry guys its been nearly two weeks that I haven’t really enter anything in the journals to keep you guys updated with my life. I been doing a lot better now that I have plans for my life. So far everything is going smooth. I also have spoke over the phone with a good friend I met. I called Bai and Hoa to speak with them a lot. We spent several days playing Zing Tien Len online. It quite fun burning time. Also lately I been taking Trieu out to the park and been feeding him lots of food. I spent a lot of time talking on the phone with another special friend. She gave me a good laugh. Also made me understand that letting good is the best option. I also have a better sense of direction. It gave me better hope to make my life better. I’m going to return to the webhosting world and apply for the old job that I was dismissed from. I’m still capable of doing the same job. But ever since I got hooked up with STBX it has changed my life from a loner working students to a just a no lifer. It also made me realize that making small steps affects what you’re going to do in life. So choosing friends/soul mates makes a huge different in life. When we choose a wife or anything it has to be someone who has plans for their life instead of full control over you. Holding all the money you have and wont allow you to expand your plans/ideas to make a better life. That’s someone I must avoid. That’s whats been going on the last two weeks. I also been checking on my lawyers what is our next steps but it seem like she hasn’t answer or been busy with her work. Hope to hear from my lawyer pretty soon though. I like to stay on top of things and figure out what we need to do next to make this go smooth as possible. Well that’s it guys! I’m alive and kicking that’s just the update.

Vo Cardin ham choi lam! =My Ex-wife loves to Party = Full Custody

  Cardin Nguyen        September 11, 2009

Vo Cardin ham choi lam! =My Ex-wife loves to Party = Full Custody
Its been sometimes now that I haven’t write journals in Vietnamese so today journal is going to be in my horrible Vietnamese language. So those who cant read in Vietnamese I’m sorry. For those who can read Vietnamese I’m sorry too because my grammer and spelling isn’t perfect but I’ll try my best.
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My Feelings Today – Fear for my son

  Cardin Nguyen        September 5, 2009

Well I spent majority of my time today listening to music while I post up business cards for Geary. There’s this song that I listen over 2 hours worth of it. It never got boring because when it comes across the lyrics I posted below it allow me to forgive my wife. Though she doesn’t answer my phone call I totally understand because she’s influence. If you understand it then read it. I won’t translate everything. The highlighted words will be translated.
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My Daily Activities and Son Activities

  Cardin Nguyen        September 4, 2009

Today was another rough day! Papers were late in the morning again! I didn’t start the route till 4:30 on a Friday! I rushed through the route and finished by 7am. After finishing the route I went home and lay down to sleep. By 11am my father called and ask what’s I’ve been up to because he’s getting worries. Other days I call every few hours to check on my son but today was different. My father instead updated me on what he did. My son woke up really early in the morning at 8. My dad made rice with eggs and soy sauce for my son to eat. After that they went to Starbucks coffee.
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Birthday at Simplicity

  Cardin Nguyen        September 3, 2009

Today is my son’s birthday! I nearly almost forgot. After doing nearly half of my morning routes. I thought of my son for a second then remember its September 2, 2009 already. Quickly I called Melissa and ask if she could take over my traffic this morning. Boy without Melissa help I would probably be out of job by now. With the constant days of taking my mother in law to the doctors and appointments it would leave me with no job.

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A Hidden City Within a City

  Cardin Nguyen        September 1, 2009

Today was a tought day to get by. From time to time I miss my wife. Miseed the time when she first fell in love with me. As time got hard we all change. But we both couldn’t get along because hard time change people. We all need our space to breath. Lately I been walking with Alfred alot down by the waterfront. I discovered there so many things out there that I haven’t seend. I been in Bellingham since 2002 when I came up to continue my college career.
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Hope! -Wait & Be Patiences

  Cardin Nguyen        August 31, 2009

Now! Don’t think I’ll let you guys go unnoticed of what’s going on through my hard times. The last two days I been going around posting up Comcast flyers on doors to help Geary out. He’s working his butt off trying to get his new job high up there. Since he work on commission base as well its important for Geary to me massive sales. So he’s using his unique ideas to promote the business.tra work to To support my son I’m doing extra work and jobs people offer to pay my lawyer fees. I realized over this whole problems I’m going to. Being a man and not be in the abuse condition that I was in we must stand up for our self. Most important of all even if I continue to believe the dream of a family map I should always set money aside to do things I want. Since I got married all my checks went to my wife so the one that money is my wife. My wife and her father has a checking account together. While my wife and I have no account together. All my checks I made are deposited by my father-in-law. Continue reading →

Abuse Happens All The Time

  Cardin Nguyen        August 28, 2009

Abuse
Today I like to focus my chat on abuse. I guess abuse can take many forms and angle. But before we go into that I’ll start off with what I did today. After being 5 years in this abuse relationship I ignore the fact because I want to hold onto the family.
Today is like every other day of my life for the last two years. I wake up and head to work then head back home. (eh typical morning) . After getting some sleep I caught some email from Anna and decided that its about time I do something and not ignore. I had been abuse over the last 5 years. I was verbally abuse, psychological abuse, neglect, and physical abuse. Continue reading →