Cardin Nguyen 
October 15, 2009First I guess its better off to break this journal down to three parts: my apology, my regret, and my happiness. It would be crunch up if I all type it in one paragaph which would be borring right? So here goes…. Continue reading →
Cardin Nguyen October 13, 2009Life we all make mistakes from time to time no matter how much we watch out for those mistakes. But knowing when to fix accept and fix mistakes is the beauty of life. I guess after having a pretty long conversation I finally realize that my isolation has got me out of hands. I guess during the time that my job fired and business failure has got me into isolation mode. I decide to hide in the corner and that bought up more mistakes that made my reaction and mode of thinking went off track. I should have acted a lot better. During the conversation I realize that Ms. Tran begin to hide and neglect. I guess I was trying to confront her buying expensive stuff and finally realize she is beginning to lie. Hahaha I’m not a moron. I asked why she can’t make a living with her $2,600 a month anymore. She goes she doesn’t make that much. That’s so much lies right there! But I guess though we have decided go down this path I’ll still try to main a stable relation. OH Well! I got proof of all my check cashed into her father account. I got everything in the world to prove it. Tape recorders and VIDEO takes of Tran admitting to her salary too! So I could care less about her lies. But meh….not important to me……
Cardin Nguyen October 12, 2009The last 5 days my son and I been having the blast of our lifetime. We been traveling alot and going to Olympia, Tacoma, and Seattle sightseeing. During that time frame I spoke with Tran over the phone serveral times. We kind of got things clear up a bit creating a healthier friendship for our son. I realize that when she came to American we got married at a very young age. She wasn’t done partying and living the rich life style yet. Sad part is she is poor as fuck and she hangs out with people who are 50x time richer then she is so she has to act like she rich. She has to buy LV expensive stuff to fit into the group of friend she has. Beside once she fits in she beable to meet a man who makes more money. She giving up a family that we can work together to make the communication better for a richer life. I understand people have expectation so I’m not piss. Oh well best wish to the x-wife.
Cardin Nguyen October 7, 2009We’ll since I received the call from my Paralegal of Christina King my days we’re dark. I wasn’t sad because more courts dates. But due to the fact that we’re wasting more money. My STBX (soon to be ex) claims that I shouldn’t get a lawyer and agree things out of court. But in order to protect my rights that’s why I got a lawyer. Now that we got everything almost done.
We finish the Temp Parenting Plan and now we’re working over child support she decided to get herself a lawyer so we can start at step 1 all over. She is spending her cash and making me start all over wasting all the money that I have spent so far to get this far. Quite sad eh?
We’re both wasting money! We’re so close to be done but because she don’t want to deal with child support and assets part she decided to fight for custody? Eh now instead of me wasting 4k~ estimated cost for the divorce it will cost me 4K already spent + whatever it cost to get us to final divorce!
Cardin Nguyen October 5, 2009Today isn’t a good day at all! Today we received a response from Tran lawyer that she wants night time custody over my son. I’m fighting for the abuse that her family has set upon me. After talking with Anna over the phone it sound like this will be 10+ months. That will cost both parties thousands of dollars! This is going to get nastier then was before. I thought it was going smooth but now this is going to take ages. Oh well for the love and health of my son I will fight till the end and stand my grounds.
a.) No overnight visitation due to the fact my STBX (soon to be ex wife) hit my son when he doesn’t eat. Due to the fact that her family doesn’t take my son to the doctor when he’s sick and resorts to traditional treatments which has no logic to it. Cutting a kids back doesn’t help his health at all.
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Cardin Nguyen October 4, 2009Today was a rough day due to the fact that I had to see my STBX (soon to be ex wife). I don’t want to see her because I am already hurt as I am already. But then due to my son health I had to continue to keep a stable communication with my STBX. I just want to distance myself for awhile so I can use the time to heal myself. It really hurts because of all the suffering that I had to take. I of course want a relationship that we all try to work it out so it wont influence Trieu growing up. Now that I see him tore about from his mother and father it really hurts. I can tell every single day of my life he doesn’t know what’s going on. Some days he has to go to his mother and some days he stay with me. I sit here and watch my son attitude change as he moves from one place to another. His attitude isn’t the same anymore. Only way I can cover up his pain is love him a lot more.
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Cardin Nguyen October 2, 2009It’s been just a few days now that I guess its about time to update! I been doing really great lately. Without the silence gun held against my head ; I am now a growing man. A man who grew out of his box. I was living under silence abuse.
Lately I consider myself living under what I consider “Silence Puff Gun”. What I meant by that is a gun held against your head with no live bullets.
Each time the trigger is pulled a puff of air enters my brain damaging my brain making it way down to my heart. An pain that is unbearable, but with the power of love I continue chatter my teeth and endure.
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Cardin Nguyen September 28, 2009Finally my partner and I are working on the new version of CN.com website. Its going to be release in a month or so. The last few days I been pushing to get this through so it doesn’t look so plain. Since I got my son with me know I’ll probably going to include him in majority of my pictures. Second of all I’m still working on Prive Solutions. So much work to do!
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Cardin Nguyen September 27, 2009Dude, when I was rich I didn’t care about Garage Sale. But now I barely make it to pass by Garage Sale is your best friend. With my business rising slowly to replace my Bellingham Herald job it gives me a lot more time to be with my son while at home teaching him how to speak.
Since September 21 I been going to Garage Sale. Every dime I spent is spent carefully not like being with my STBX (Soon To Be Ex Wife) who always buys stuff at the mall. Since my son was born all stuff he wore was directly from the mall or Walmart. I was raise up wearing stuff at Garage Sale, church, and sometimes at the mall but that is reward every new school year or grades in the A’s range.
I bought a TV 32” inch for $25 Dollars!
Well anyways to make things short and cute I added
Video 2: My Apartment Journal 2 (DL)
Cardin Nguyen September 23, 2009Last night my son started to have a high fever. It was about 105 degrees when I measure him. I hesitated to take him to the hospital. He started to have the fever around 2am in the morning. I gave him Trieu some Tylenol but it did no good. In the morning I called Interfaith Community Health to schedule a 10:30 appoint with Dr. Sarah Saffer. After diagnostics she knows that he has the flu, but then suspected that he has the Surine Flu that has been going around. His oxygen level was 93 when she took it. She immediately went outside and got paramedics. About 10 minutes or less the paramedics arrived and suited up. They all covered their mouth and asked everyone in the building to cover their mouth. As soon as that was done I was escorted to the Hospital in Emergency room. The nurse called his mother but she didn’t pick up. Assuming she’s at work, then the Dr. Saffer nurse ask if I got another number to call so I gave Trinh my x-wife sister phone number to called.